If the judge decides that the defendant has abused you and that there is a danger of further abuse, s/he is required by law [15 V.S.A. §1103(c)] to order the protections s/he thinks necessary to protect you and/or the children, and to keep them in force for as long as s/he thinks you need them [15 V.S.A. §1103(d)]. The law describes some protections, but the judge may give you more protections if s/he believes that you need them.
Think about your situation before the final hearing so you can ask the judge for the protections you need, and can explain why you need them. Look at the protections below. Check the ones you need and add any others you want. Bring the original to court for the judge, and make copies for yourself and the defendant.
| ___ 1. Defendant shall not abuse: ___ you and/or ___ the minor children. |
| ___ 2. Defendant shall not use, attempt to use or threaten to use physical force against: ___ you and/or ___ the minor children. |
| ___ 3. Defendant shall not do anything to make you afraid of bodily injury to yourself or the minor children. |
| ___ 4. Defendant shall not follow or stalk: ___ you and/or ___ the minor children. |
| ___ 5. Defendant shall not threaten or harass: ___ you and/or ___ the minor children. |
| ___ 6. Defendant shall not telephone, write to, contact in any way, or directly or indirectly communicate with: ___ you and/or ___ the minor children. Or you can ask that defendant contact you under the following conditions: _______________ |
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___ 7. Defendant shall not enter your home for any purpose. Or you can ask that defendant be allowed to enter your home under the following conditions:____________ |
| ___ 8. Defendant shall not come within _____ feet of ___ you and/or ___ the minor children, and/or___your home and___any other places where you or the children spend time (your workplace, your parents' home, the children's school or daycare, etc.):___________ |
| ___ 9. Defendant shall deliver the following weapons to the police: ____________ |
| ___ 10. You shall have possession of the home and the defendant may get personal belongings as follows: ___________________________________ |
| ___ 11. Defendant shall pay $ ________ per ___week/___month for your living expenses (if s/he has been supporting you) for the next 3 months. |
| ___ 12. You need possession of the following personal property for your protection and for the care of the children: _______________________________ |
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___ 13. Describe any other protections you need on the bottom of the back of this sheet or on a separate sheet of paper which you can give the judge. |
| ___ 14. How long do you want the order to be in effect? For example: 1 year, 5 years, until the children reach 18, until further order of the court. ________ |
| ___ 14. You shall have custody of the minor children. |
| ___ 15. Defendant shall have no contact with the minor children. |
| ___ 16. Defendant shall visit the minor children on the following day(s) of the week and at the following times: ______________________ only under the following conditions:
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___ 17. Defendant shall pay $ ______ per ___week/___month for child support for the next 3 months. |
| ___ 18. Other protections you and/or the children need: _________________
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